And then someone says something perfect…

28 Apr

For all the rotten friends, there are many more that support you.  And stumble and say stupid things but mean it with all their heart and sometimes stumble upon the perfect thing. 

For example:

“It’s gonna work for you. It’s just taking longer to make the perfect little person.”

Or:

“I think of you often because you would be great parents and things have been so challenging.  There is just no explanation…it’s not fair.  I can only imagine how frustrating this process must be.  Once you have a baby (however you get to the end point), you will forget the disappointment that you have experienced but in the moment (and there have been many moments for you guys), it is just heartbreaking.”

I have to remember these people when I’m faced with people who say stupid things.

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